For me Madison's Czar making fun of lesbians making cheese thinking he 's cute at their expense and isn t the gay population the one group we still neglect i mean would Barak Obama have a KKK minister give the benedition.

He could have chosen Joel Olsteen, he doesn t offend he builds on strengths and represents a more conservative theocracy.

I grew up hearing in rural America, "the farmer's wife." and then, found out that the farmer's wife often did both the house and the farm, why didn t we call her, "the farmer's slave"

And my mother got it and she did not make her children become slave workers on a farm. We owe her love for education for that.

So it's outrageous that he reduced two farm women to "lesbian cheese makers' so he can appear clever.

Today I was paying for my THAI lunch and I heard a woman say, "Teresa " It was one of my poolmates from Harbor. I said, "Oh, my god, I just sent out your xmas card today"

She said, "Teresa we have that connection where we run into each other."

She and another poolmate introduced me to Hubbard Diner and then i foudn the Middleton Library which is my hang out.

I am grateful for her kindness and friendship.

She reminds me of my friend, Cath. She like Cath adopted kids.

They both are grounded to the earth.

I think of Cath every day.

Her female spouse was there and we chatted and we hugged.

I felt so good. She's one of the pool mates who